Everyone in
this world is born to live and enjoy the life, is not something new to talk
about. All who took ten months to fall in this world have and provided with
equal opportunities and skill sets, may be in different field at different
levels. But the basic need for everyone is same to fulfill. So, all of us are
trying to learn and work towards the accomplishments of those needs. These
needs are fulfilled at different levels based on the capacity of the
individual, who are the responsible participants of a society.
The nature
of the society, we live in, depends on the nature of the individuals who are
part of it. And every society has its own style and culture to follow. These
culture and values should be known to everyone in that society and must respect
it to have a peaceful living. The democracy can be applied to the extent of an
individual and should not affect the other members of the society.
Now coming
to the point, we all know well that our society respects all those who
contribute to the development of the society and never respect the one who is a
burden to the society. At the same time, a society consists of several families
with family members, who are the contributors of the society, is a fact not to
be argued.
In our
society, since the beginning, the men are the one to bring the income and the women
are to take care of the family. It doesn’t mean that, the women are lesser than
the men. It is the women who make a house in to a loveable home. Only a woman
can teach the love and affection to all the other members of the family. But
because at some part of the country, the men dominated and humiliated women,
many revolutions have initiated to bring equality between men and women. It was
a welcoming move and now we have many of our sisters and mothers working at
various levels.
Did that
make any positive change in the society towards its peaceful living? Few
decades back, we had a peaceful society where all had the freedom to move and
almost equal affordability to have a healthy living. Now almost in all the
families, both the parents go for job and kids are at stake. Having no proper
guidance and monitoring, the kids are getting spoiled, who are the participants
of tomorrow’s society. And these families are able to spend more as they have
double earning, where as we have lot of families without even a single earning
and no means to support the family.
However, in
our society, if a woman or girl is not working, the maximum punishment will be,
to get her married soon. Where as if a man or boy is not working, he will be
cursed by his own family and he will never get married at all. So to fulfill
the needs and to avoid unnecessary abuse from the family and the so called
society these unemployed are engaged in illegal activities and atrocities. It
is the responsibility of the society to provide them jobs and keep them engaged
and not blame them for their activities. This is one of the major problem arose
due to equality. To make an end to it, my humble request to all men is that, those
who are employed and feeling satisfied with the job please go for unemployed
girls as your life partners and let the employed girls marry unemployed men,
who can take care of the family maintenance at home. This will definitely bring
in some balance in the society. This will also reduce lot of unwanted
issues in the society and give a peaceful living for the rest of the days. Let
us try to understand the needs of others as well. This will create a wonderful
environment for all and all can enjoy India as a safer place to live in.
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